TECHNIQUE MANIPULATION
Some people use covert persuasion tactics and techniques to get what they want, and that is fine as long as they are used
ethically. But some individuals use psychological manipulation techniques that
aren't so morally sound.
Unfortunately, a vast majority of the population
doesn't even realize that they're being manipulated until it's too late.
Don't be lured into this trap. By learning about
these psychological manipulation techniques, you can protect yourself from
being forced into doing things or saying things that you don't really want.
Below are some of the sneaky tactics and dirty
tricks you have to be careful with.
1. It's Either Me or Him/Her.
Some people like to make their friends choose
between them and another person. Now you are more pressured to choose the
manipulator, for fear of losing their friendship.
But a true friend would never do such a thing. This
is a manipulative method that even little kids use in the playground. To avoid
making a decision (and one you would probably regret either way), walk away.
Let that person know that you're not going to take sides.
If they throw a huff, that is no longer your
problem. What matters is that you stayed neutral. Frankly, you'll be a lot
safer that way anyway.
2. I'll do you This Favour, But Don't
Forget You Owe Me.
It's really difficult to ask someone for a favour,
especially when you know they're going to exploit you right back for it. It's
normal to ask a favour from a friend. But there are people who will do you one
favour, and then will milk you for every little thing afterwards.
When you put your foot down, they will go on a
tirade about how you have no sense of gratitude and whatnot. To avoid this kind
of manipulation, be careful with who you ask favors from. Remember that there
is a price for everything.
3. If You're Sick, I'm Dying.
We all know how this goes. Emotional manipulators
will always make themselves look more of a victim than you are.
They crave for attention, which is why they're not
always happy when you get the limelight, even if it's just for a headache.
There's really no getting around to a person like this.
Perhaps with the right timing, a huge and frank
outburst might get through to their head. However, it's easier to just let that
person be and avoid commenting anymore.
The truth is, psychological manipulation techniques
are often used by cowards. They can't do direct combat; so they will usually
resort to sneaky ways to get you to do what they want. Now that you know what
some of these dirty tricks are, hopefully, you'll be able to avoid getting
sucked into them.
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